Just the other day I was sitting in my living room watching Sex & The City and Sarah Jessica Parker who plays the role of "Carrie Bradshaw" mentioned something in which she referred to as spirits of relationships past. What she said was actually true and made a whole lot of sense. When you have unresolved issues with an ex you always tend to see them, and it's not like you want to but no matter what you do or where you go they always seem to pop up. Once those issues are resolved you never see them anymore. It's as if that one person and issue you want so hard to forget is constantly there and will never go away. That's why WE, yes WE need to confront our issues...deal with it and get the hell over it. It's just one less thing you have to worry about because Lord knows we all go through it at some point in time. So stop avoiding the situation and get rid of those spirits before they haunt you for the rest of your life. No one is trying to end up like the Mr. Scrooge of relationships.
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